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THREE STRONG ROOTS
To keep our commitment to our partner, and to weather the most difficult storms, we need strong roots. If we wait until there is trouble with our partner to try and solve it, we won’t have built strong enough roots to withstand the assault. Often we think we’re balanced when, in reality, that balance is… Continue reading THREE STRONG ROOTS
THREE KINDS OF INTIMACY
There are three kinds of intimacy: physical, emotional, and spiritual. These three should go together. Every one of us is seeking emotional intimacy. We want to have real communication, mutual understanding, and communion. We want to be in harmony with someone. When an intimate relationship contains all three elements, then physical intimacy is more meaningful… Continue reading THREE KINDS OF INTIMACY
Bồ Đề Đạt Ma
Dựa theo cuốn sách Trò chuyện với Vĩ nhân (Meeting with Remarkable people) của Osho, Nhà xuất bản First News. Mình sẽ tóm tắt tổng quát và nêu vài ý chính quan trọng ra đây. Nếu ai có nhu cầu tìm hiểu chuyên sâu thì lên mạng tham khảo thêm nhé. Những bài viết kiểu… Continue reading Bồ Đề Đạt Ma
SAYING “NO”
Loving someone doesn’t mean saying “yes” to whatever the other person wants. The basis of loving someone else is to know yourself and to know what you need. I know a woman who suffered very much because she couldn’t say “no.” From the time she was young, whenever a man asked her for something, she… Continue reading SAYING “NO”
ATTENTION
As long as we’re rejecting ourselves and causing harm to our bodies and minds, there’s no point in talking about loving and accepting others. With mindfulness, we can recognize our habitual ways of thinking and the contents of our thoughts. Sometimes our thoughts run around in circles and we’re engulfed in distrust, pessimism, conflict, sorrow,… Continue reading ATTENTION
NOURISHED BY JOY
Learn to nourish yourself and the other person with joy. Are you able to make the other person smile? Are you able to increase her confidence and enthusiasm? If you’re not able to do these small things for her, how can you say you love her? Sometimes a kind word is enough to help someone… Continue reading NOURISHED BY JOY
JOY IS HEALING
If a relationship can’t provide joy, then it’s not true love. If you keep making the other person cry all day, that’s not true love. Offer only the things that can make the other person happy. You should know the real needs of that person. Practice and learn how to generate a feeling of joy,… Continue reading JOY IS HEALING
A TRUE PARTNER
We tend to wonder if we have enough to offer in a relationship. We’re thirsty for truth, goodness, compassion, spiritual beauty, so we go looking outside. Sometimes we think we’ve found a partner who embodies all that is good, beautiful, and true. After a time, we usually discover that we’ve had a wrong perception of… Continue reading A TRUE PARTNER
LIBERATION FROM COMPLEXES
Often we can’t love ourselves or others fully when we’re stuck in our own complexes. When you have an inferiority complex, you have low self-esteem, and this is a kind of sickness. High self-esteem is also a sickness, because you consider yourself to be above others and that causes suffering as well. Although equality is… Continue reading LIBERATION FROM COMPLEXES